Elizabeth Percer

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Elizabeth Percer

Elizabeth Percer

Elizabeth Percer is the author of All Stories Are Love Stories, An Uncommon Education, and Ultrasound.

Elizabeth Percer

2 hours ago

Elizabeth Percer
"Prowling about the rooms, sitting down, getting up, stirring the fire, looking out the window, teasing my hair, sitting down to write, writing nothing, writing something and tearing it up..." -Charles Dickens ... See MoreSee Less

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I’m usually not a big fan of pithy phrases to describe the human experience, but I make a pointed exception when it comes to the mental load. If you’ve never come across this phrase, it stems from an effort to define that condition so many primary caregivers suffer from; namely, the psychological weight of being constantly preoccupied with the thousand-and-one behind-the-scenes details of keeping a family and household together. It’s been an enormously useful concept to me as a parent, but I’ve also found it useful to see it at work in my writing. In fact, I’d even go so far as to say that we’re susceptible to mental overload in any arena where our passions and ideals far exceed our capacity. And while I generally embrace the idea of shooting for the stars, it can be ever so slightly demoralizing when you realize exactly how many of them there are in the sky. And that they’re all glittering and mysterious and enticing and fascinating, and before you know it you’ve stopped reaching and are lying in the grass, dumbfounded and immobilized. It’s tempting to feel as if the mental load is something being imposed on you. But the truth is that what we pay attention to is largely under our control. We might feel like we’ll never get anywhere in our novel if we don’t first read everything ever written on, say, Asian tea ceremonies over the past 5,000 years before even thinking of letting our characters share a cuppa, but we don’t actually have to. When it comes to doing meaningful creative work, it’s never about checking all the boxes. If it were, anyone with any kind of personal connection to their work would go lie in the street, because the more you care about something, the more you see ways you can devote your attention to it.Sure, things will get left aside. Important things, sometimes, in work and in life. But not getting hurt or disappointed and never hurting or disappointing anyone are unrealistic goals. Instead, set your sights on what’s manageable, which is knowing that at any given moment, you can return to the core of why you do what you do, and embrace even the smallest of victories you find there. ... See MoreSee Less
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The Writer’s Log

Writer’s Log, December 1: Winter Light
  I’m not a big fan of the holiday season. I hate the sense of pressurized joy, where the faith Read more
Writer's Log, November 4th: It might be time to take a vacation...
Anyone who’s ever spent a few hours trying to wrangle their words onto a page knows that writing is hard Read more
Writer’s Log, October 4: Harvesting
  Ah, harvest time. The time of pumpkins and colorful leaves and crisp air and getting the kids’ Halloween costumes Read more
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